Pushary vs withHuman

Pushary

Six small tools with a detailed skill that says when to ask, when to notify and when to stay quiet. No free plan, and the 3-day trial takes a card up front.

withHuman

The approval API is small and carefully specified, with a public OpenAPI 3.1 document, mandatory idempotency keys and agent credentials that can never approve. The service is in early access under its own terms, with no status page, published rate limits or changelog, and the open-source repository the site links to returned 404 on 8 October 2026.

Pushary

1. Read answered, status and handoffAction on every result, and never treat a timeout as approval
2. Expect ask_user to return at once with answered: false when the user's mode is notify-only or terminal-only
3. Poll wait_for_answer once (it waits at most 55 seconds), then follow the handoff instead of looping
4. Cancel a live question with cancel_question before asking the same thing in chat
5. Group open decisions into one select question, since each push interrupts the user

withHuman

1. Send an Idempotency-Key header on POST /api/aap/v1/requests. The call answers 400 without one
2. Read the decision with GET /api/aap/v1/requests/{id}?wait=30s and repeat while status is pending. wait is capped at 30 seconds
3. Set timeout between one second and seven days, and treat expired and cancelled as a refusal
4. Start an approved call within five minutes of decided_at, because the decision carries an expires_at
5. Cancel a request when you stop waiting, so reviewers stop seeing it